The UK/Scotland systems of Children Welfare Hearing Courts' (CWHC) must genuinely address the Needs of Children and stop Discrimination against Men!!
January 2, 2013
Dear Readers,
In the UK, the rights of Children and fathers---- Post Divorce/Separation is increasingly muddled, if it's not turning to become the tragedy of 21st Century where the UK's noble civilisation is going backward to the early 19th century where men used to leave their wives in a Chastity Belt (in an erroneous believe that they could control their promiscuity) during the first world war. The stark contrast is becoming reality for UK's separated/divorced men with varying magnitudes and degrees with relation to the child father contacts. I'm not generalising and putting in the same cubicle -the responsible mothers who prioritise the needs of their children's and allow them to enjoy child-fatherly relationships post-separation/divorce, by creating a positive atmosphere with their fathers. The UK currently needs more of such exceptionally responsible mothers.
An absolute power given to all mothers for virtue of being a mother/woman (regardless of their background that might be rather risky to the kids involved) the UK's noble Child Welfare hearing systems became increasingly biased!! There are serious risks that the mothers who neither think about the fact that the long term effect of depriving the Children contacts with their beloved fathers might have-as they are mostly driven by vindictive rages, attitudes and believes-are groomed to do more harm to their kids . The actions of the mothers that are tacitly validated http://www.deltabravo.net/cms/plugins/content/content.php?content.302 by the law enforcing agencies those who on most occasions claim that they have learnt lessons after the kids are permanently damaged or killed by one of the irresponsible parents, the crime which isn't exclusive to men.
Logically, as there are a very few evil fathers to their kids, this is also the case with mothers. The unsettling reality was seen and the prejudices against men (that proclaims men are always violent) is proving wrong time and again although law enforcers preferred to be often oblivious. When a mother slaughtered her 3 kids in Edinburgh in 2010 in an abhorring manner, (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-12663965 to hurt the loving and caring dad, the law enforcers didn't take appropriate action in time.The only slogan of Child protection agencies after such unsettling crime was committed- was attempting to justify the unjustifiable claiming that the mother did so due to 'diminished responsibility-thus locking the mother up for some time in a Psychiatric hospital for few weeks or months and return her to normal prisons from where she will be released after perhaps few years under the pretext of the above slogan) http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2011/apr/27/mother-jailed-16-years-children.
If men commit such heinous crimes against own kids, its is automatically regarded as the violent nature of men attributed to such a crime!! Although such abhorring crimes committed against kids time and again, it however hasn't been exclusive to men http://www.trutv.com/library/crime/notorious_murders/women/marybeth_tinning/index.html!! The history time and again shows that there have been both women and men who have been out of order to commit such diabolic crimes against their own children and others vulnerable groups of society....at large. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2192020/Mother-killed-decapitated-son-2-stabbing-death.html!! Regardless the sex of culprit the crime is the same http://www.wfaa.com/news/local/Baby-killer-mom-found-working-in-area-Walmart-165199856.html.And there are numerous recorded evidences showing how women inhumanely slaughter their kids for variety of reasons; http://www.canadiancrc.com/Infanticide-Women_Who_Kill_Their_Babies.aspx and here is another information, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infanticide
Despite these irrefutable and inescapable facts, the UK system is also designed in such a way that it treats fathers less favourably -suddenly considering them threats to their kids (once they are separated/divorced) without any evidence and cross-checking for the validity of futile falsification and vile fabrications the most irresponsible mothers involved with anti-men curators, lawyer, judges and others in the system who don't want to see the other part of the stories-create.
In the middle of such injustices and muddles, the prime victims always remain Children whose voices are often unheard and justices is not being served on their behalf under various pretexts and numerous fruitless court appointments. As a result of such sad sagas, in their tender ages, the Children are left with enduring and life long wounds that might not heal easily if it isn't addressed in time! The curators and the judges on numerous occasions don't seem caring and concerned at all. As the Children are left in darkness- so is the likelihood of their futurity. This is the reality of the current UK Child welfare hearing courts impose on Kids and separated dad on most occasions.
There are ample researches supporting my argument as to how the children under such situation are more likely to develop a life long mental health difficulty, personality disorder, less achieving in schools and universities and the drop out rates among such group is so high compared to those whose separation of their parents goes smoothly. It seems to this blogger that the current system lacks ability to critically look into these very important demands the business they are involved requires.
Thus, the current UK's CWH courts' systems are totally unfair and they need to change for the best of Children firstly and for all humanity at large.The system also obliviously violates the rights of fathers and the kids as it doesn't genuinely translate the law into practice. I think the essence of its establishment shouldn't be undermined by the most irresponsible and benefit monger lawyers, curators, reporters and at times judges who took the Law into their hands to make it the Empire of their personal business, making Children the most victims in their endless process.
I am a strong believer of mothers love and I never imagine in my life seeing Children deprived of their rights to have contacts with their mothers at any suitable places under whatsoever circumstances (post separation/divorce) unless there is tangible and credible risk for the safety of kids involved. If the risk is thought to be real, there must be an arranged contacts under observation. This is a natural rights for kids and to both mothers and fathers equally. The same rule must apply to fathers regardless of any grievances and discontents the parents might have, if the system to maintain the integrity of noble justices system this land (UK) had had cherished for several generations and centuries. The UK's System is noble and the implementation is not walking the walk of 21st century, therefore it must change!!
I think the UK government, the Society and the whole spectrum of public and private personalities need to safeguard the rights of the children primarily without any prejudices that takes place in most UK's Children Welfare Hearing (CWH) courts where fathers are automatically treated less favourably and unfairly!!
DN,
January 2, 2013
Dear Readers,
In the UK, the rights of Children and fathers---- Post Divorce/Separation is increasingly muddled, if it's not turning to become the tragedy of 21st Century where the UK's noble civilisation is going backward to the early 19th century where men used to leave their wives in a Chastity Belt (in an erroneous believe that they could control their promiscuity) during the first world war. The stark contrast is becoming reality for UK's separated/divorced men with varying magnitudes and degrees with relation to the child father contacts. I'm not generalising and putting in the same cubicle -the responsible mothers who prioritise the needs of their children's and allow them to enjoy child-fatherly relationships post-separation/divorce, by creating a positive atmosphere with their fathers. The UK currently needs more of such exceptionally responsible mothers.
An absolute power given to all mothers for virtue of being a mother/woman (regardless of their background that might be rather risky to the kids involved) the UK's noble Child Welfare hearing systems became increasingly biased!! There are serious risks that the mothers who neither think about the fact that the long term effect of depriving the Children contacts with their beloved fathers might have-as they are mostly driven by vindictive rages, attitudes and believes-are groomed to do more harm to their kids . The actions of the mothers that are tacitly validated http://www.deltabravo.net/cms/plugins/content/content.php?content.302 by the law enforcing agencies those who on most occasions claim that they have learnt lessons after the kids are permanently damaged or killed by one of the irresponsible parents, the crime which isn't exclusive to men.
Logically, as there are a very few evil fathers to their kids, this is also the case with mothers. The unsettling reality was seen and the prejudices against men (that proclaims men are always violent) is proving wrong time and again although law enforcers preferred to be often oblivious. When a mother slaughtered her 3 kids in Edinburgh in 2010 in an abhorring manner, (http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-scotland-edinburgh-east-fife-12663965 to hurt the loving and caring dad, the law enforcers didn't take appropriate action in time.The only slogan of Child protection agencies after such unsettling crime was committed- was attempting to justify the unjustifiable claiming that the mother did so due to 'diminished responsibility-thus locking the mother up for some time in a Psychiatric hospital for few weeks or months and return her to normal prisons from where she will be released after perhaps few years under the pretext of the above slogan) http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2011/apr/27/mother-jailed-16-years-children.
If men commit such heinous crimes against own kids, its is automatically regarded as the violent nature of men attributed to such a crime!! Although such abhorring crimes committed against kids time and again, it however hasn't been exclusive to men http://www.trutv.com/library/crime/notorious_murders/women/marybeth_tinning/index.html!! The history time and again shows that there have been both women and men who have been out of order to commit such diabolic crimes against their own children and others vulnerable groups of society....at large. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2192020/Mother-killed-decapitated-son-2-stabbing-death.html!! Regardless the sex of culprit the crime is the same http://www.wfaa.com/news/local/Baby-killer-mom-found-working-in-area-Walmart-165199856.html.And there are numerous recorded evidences showing how women inhumanely slaughter their kids for variety of reasons; http://www.canadiancrc.com/Infanticide-Women_Who_Kill_Their_Babies.aspx and here is another information, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infanticide
Despite these irrefutable and inescapable facts, the UK system is also designed in such a way that it treats fathers less favourably -suddenly considering them threats to their kids (once they are separated/divorced) without any evidence and cross-checking for the validity of futile falsification and vile fabrications the most irresponsible mothers involved with anti-men curators, lawyer, judges and others in the system who don't want to see the other part of the stories-create.
In the middle of such injustices and muddles, the prime victims always remain Children whose voices are often unheard and justices is not being served on their behalf under various pretexts and numerous fruitless court appointments. As a result of such sad sagas, in their tender ages, the Children are left with enduring and life long wounds that might not heal easily if it isn't addressed in time! The curators and the judges on numerous occasions don't seem caring and concerned at all. As the Children are left in darkness- so is the likelihood of their futurity. This is the reality of the current UK Child welfare hearing courts impose on Kids and separated dad on most occasions.
There are ample researches supporting my argument as to how the children under such situation are more likely to develop a life long mental health difficulty, personality disorder, less achieving in schools and universities and the drop out rates among such group is so high compared to those whose separation of their parents goes smoothly. It seems to this blogger that the current system lacks ability to critically look into these very important demands the business they are involved requires.
Thus, the current UK's CWH courts' systems are totally unfair and they need to change for the best of Children firstly and for all humanity at large.The system also obliviously violates the rights of fathers and the kids as it doesn't genuinely translate the law into practice. I think the essence of its establishment shouldn't be undermined by the most irresponsible and benefit monger lawyers, curators, reporters and at times judges who took the Law into their hands to make it the Empire of their personal business, making Children the most victims in their endless process.
I am a strong believer of mothers love and I never imagine in my life seeing Children deprived of their rights to have contacts with their mothers at any suitable places under whatsoever circumstances (post separation/divorce) unless there is tangible and credible risk for the safety of kids involved. If the risk is thought to be real, there must be an arranged contacts under observation. This is a natural rights for kids and to both mothers and fathers equally. The same rule must apply to fathers regardless of any grievances and discontents the parents might have, if the system to maintain the integrity of noble justices system this land (UK) had had cherished for several generations and centuries. The UK's System is noble and the implementation is not walking the walk of 21st century, therefore it must change!!
I think the UK government, the Society and the whole spectrum of public and private personalities need to safeguard the rights of the children primarily without any prejudices that takes place in most UK's Children Welfare Hearing (CWH) courts where fathers are automatically treated less favourably and unfairly!!
DN,
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